Jen Ching ♥

Here’s to all the girls who used to be his number one. The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning & be disappointed. The ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, & moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened. Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going. The ones who listened to him say, “I only want to be your friend” one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves & misses you. We deserve something, and this is our tribute. Here’s to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, & even snuck around to see him for while. We went through the great stage with no fights all over again. We started this out thinking we would be just friends, & ended up falling in love with him again. We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming. This is for us. Here’s to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days. Here’s for the tears cried and dried all over again. We wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn’t possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early. We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us. We learned to settle for someone who didn’t treat us the way we should be treated. Here’s for the ones who did their hair and make up & put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn’t see us today. This is for those great girls who loved him more than words can say, & took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn’t bear to look back on their lives one day & wonder “what if”. This is for the girls that stayed up all night long listening to him whine about an ex girlfriend who cheated on him, & cried during the entire conversation. The ones who hoped he would realize that he deserved better, that he deserved us. When he said that he loved you, he didn’t mean it. This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with. Here’s to the girls who couldn’t cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt. The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again. This is for the ones who couldn’t bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an “I told you so”. The ones that could just tell that they had made a mistake by ever allowing him into their hearts & their dreams again. We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us. We just wanted the one that we loved like that. Here’s for the ones that finally realized that he never gave a crap about them. Here’s for the time that he broke your heart again. This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, & the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment. Here’s for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better. This is for those confusing days, when you miss him & want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. Stay strong and remember that relationships are like broken glass; sometimes it’s better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together & get hurt. Remember the times you cried & how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that. When ‘your song’ comes on the radio, turn the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made & tries calling, turn your phone off. When he tries coming to your house, don’t answer the door. Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation & the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the hell he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night & how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn’t him, and realized that once again, he hadn’t called when he said he was going to. One day you’ll find a guy who’s worth all the tears, but he won’t make you cry. You may think that you’ll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will. It’s going to hurt like hell, & it’s going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal. This is for those girls who fell back in love with their ex, only to get hurt all over again.

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Well, hindi ko pa siya nababasa but mukhang maganda naman. Haha, emo much? :))

The Annoying/Funny List

1. People who point at their wrist while asking for
the time.

— “I know where my watch is buddy! Where the hell is yours? Do I point at my crotch when I ask where the bathroom is?? “

2. People who are willing to get off their ass to search the entire room for the damn TV remote because they refuse to walk to the TV and change it manually!

3. People who ask, “Can I ask you a question?”
— “Didn’t really give me a choice there, did ya buddy?”

4. When a cop pulls you over and then asks if you know what you were doing.

— “You should know, ass! You’re the one that pulled me over!”

You look gorgeous. :)

Thank you :)

Ask me anything

whats your name?

Huh, Jen. Haha

Ask me anything

Villar asks…

Nakaligo ka na ba sa dagat ng basura
nagpasko ka na ba sa gitna ng kalsada
’yan ang tanong namin
tunay ka bang isa sa amin

Noynoy answers…
‘Di pa kami naliligo sa dagat ng basura
at ang aming Pasko ay sa Hacienda Luisita
‘yan ang sagot namin
eh kasi rich angkan namin

Gibô answers…
Sa bathtub lang at hindi sa dagat ng basura
Nag-Pasko ‘di sa kalye, kundi dun sa Amerika
at least umaamin
na super-blessed pamilya namin

Brother Eddie answers…
Lalakarin ni Hesus ang dagat ng basura
sa Pasko papakanin mga tao sa kalsada
promise niya ‘yan sa akin
at sa flock ko rin na 5M

Bayani answers for Gordon…
Bakit nga ba mayroong dagat ng basura
‘Pag Pasko tambak kasi mga ‘yan sa kalsada
lahat ‘yan dahil sa atin
tayo ang dapat na sisihin.

And finally, Jamby answers…
Si Manny Villar ay dapat lamang ibasura
Dinoble n’ya ang budget sa iisang kalsada
‘yan ang alam namin
bakit ba ayaw n’yang aminin

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